EXACTLY! Meredith has these amazing relationships (and at times CHEMISTRY) with most of the cast. But by the gods you do not want to be in any on them. I don't mind the sex, it is the emotionally baggage that screws up her character for me.

Hot Redhead Pursuing Whiny Unattractive Passive-Aggressive Jerkbag For No Discernible Reason. An icon need to be made of the quote. It sums so much about their relationship and characters. Like you, I'd love Addison much if she was, um, a bit less active, but man, she's just so cool.