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witty, somehow ([personal profile] naanima) wrote2007-10-19 05:07 pm
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USA - Here follow some US-specific facts and cultural references that non-USians are expected to know..

Something I have wanted to verbalise for a very long time but couldn't because I'd just come across as a raving lunatic. I'm Australian, but I was born in China. I lived there and then in Ireland during my formative years. So yes, word to everything on the list.

Especially number 6 & 10.

[identity profile] code-renegade.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
Word to number 6, woman. People spell things differently, call things differently (apartment vs. flat) all over the world because they've their own ROOTS. It really irks me when people claim something isn't standard English if I start writing in British English. I once had a lecturer who told us explicitly to use Americanised spelling. But, but... we are taught British English in the Singapore education system.

Case in point - my Firefox browser's spellcheck just flagged my spelling of 'Americanised'. Apparently I need to spell it as 'Americanized'. Ah, there we go - no more red squiggly line underneath.

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It just gets to me when people go around correcting other people's spelling - 's' to 'z' with the assumption that they are right. It irritates me because I was brought up to spell the British way, and if I don't go out of my way to correct how US people spell their words I don't see why they have to do it to me. Ohh - that would make me angry; my psych and English lecturers use to penalise us every time we use the American spelling. I love them so very much. Hmm, Firefox just picked up 'penalise' as wrong. Whatever.

The latest thing that got to me was the whole SPN fiasco with the episode title - "The Kids Are Alright" - people were bitching because apparently that's not how you spell 'alright', it is meant to be 'all right' (which to me have differing implications). After the 4th post with the same complaint I wanted to scream at them. Yes, it is a small thing, but it definitely shows a lack of consideration and awareness of the rest of the world.

In conclusion - ALRIGHT! PENALISE! FORMALISE! ETC.!

[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
The latest thing that got to me was the whole SPN fiasco with the episode title - "The Kids Are Alright" - people were bitching because apparently that's not how you spell 'alright'

That's dumb anyway! That's a quote, not an original title, so correcting the spelling would make the title objectively wrong. I say this with authority. :D


Also, -ise spelling is so much easier than -ize, because in American spelling, some things are -ize and some are -ise, and (I think) it's one of those things you have to memorise. There's no rule to fall back on. This is the number one reason I don't bother trying to correct myself into American spelling when I'm in the US.

[identity profile] worldserpent.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 09:38 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for the link. It is v. head-desky when Americans assume that everyone follows the American Constitution and the Bill of Rights. XD

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
No probs.

See, it isn't even a big deal, but the fact that 'educated' Americans make the same assumptions about spellings and the Bill of Rights encompassing all other English speaking countries. Well, I'm not sure if that's arrogance, ignorance or a sense of blind entitlement. None of which is comforting.
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[identity profile] issen4.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 10:16 am (UTC)(link)
Or when people bitch about their (USA) healthcare system and how it lets them down. No every country's healthcare is that fucked up, thanks.

I had to learn these things. From books! (Or TV!) So that my American aquaintances (they remained aquaintances for a good reason) wouldn't roll their eyes at me and give me the 'how can anyone be that ignorant' look. Bah. I also teach what I know to my ESL students as an example of how weird Americans are. "A university... is a college?"

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[identity profile] issen4.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 10:17 am (UTC)(link)
Not every country's...

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha. I knew what you meant.

In relation to the health care system - exactly. The Australian health care system isn't perfect but it gets me by.

I blame the media for saturating the youths of today with so much American jargon. It just makes me annoyed - I mean if I'm considerate enough to get to know their little quirks and accept them (the spelling), the least they can do is respect my quirks and NOT correct me spelling.

"A university... is a college?"

O.M.G. Some days it just isn't worth it.

[identity profile] sadieko.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Awesome link! (And one of the commenters linked to a page of British slang and cultural bits for use in writing -- even more awesome!)

I admit, I agree with Number 6 primarily as a fan of anime. I'm perpetually annoyed how the majority of anime dubbed for American TV are stripped of all cultural references and in-jokes. It just makes NO SENSE to me.

I grew up reading British and other non-American scifi/fantasy (which, being for adults was generally not rewritten to reflect American conventions) and watching the BBC ... surely if I could survive the experience, other kids can too.

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
There are so many intelligent and amazing people in this world.

of anime dubbed for American TV are stripped of all cultural references and in-jokes. I understand your pain. I can't watch dub, I just can't. It hurt too much.

I grew up watching Taiwanese/HongKong television, much Japanese anime and then was later introduced to American television. I love all of them, but having grown up watching such different texts with all their cultural references and jokes intact it left me quite aware of the differences in the different cultures. I appreciate that.

[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
Neat link! I still trip up when it comes to American things, but I've made a few false assumptions, too. I figure it evens out in my case, as long as no one ever again asks me to explain "my country's" actions. But I refuse to stop saying 'school' in reference to uni (at least until a non-stupid one-syllable abbreviation for university exists) - how is it not school?

Also, I didn't know you lived in Ireland. Did I forget, or do you just not talk about it much?

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
HI!!! You are ALIVE!

In regards to the top comment - I say this with authority. :D - You are indeed the Authority and full of awesome!

It is making assumptions that get to me so much as the lack of any further inspection or understanding of other English speaking culture. Everyone makes assumptions, it is just the way humans are, but at times assumptions without review can be a very negative thing.

no one ever again asks me to explain "my country's" actions. Personally I'd find that extremely rude (unless it was a joke between close friends), I have cut people off for less. And you shouldn't stop using 'school' when talking about 'uni', everyone I know does it. School is the all encompassing term for everything from primary to tertiary level studies. At least I think that's what it means.

It isn't something I talk much about - I left China when I was 9, and then spent the following 2 years in Dublin, Ireland. I loved Ireland; people were so friendly, and I loved the school, never felt excluded even when the whole school would go to communion every couple of weeks.

When I arrived in Perth, well - I pretty much hated the place on sight, it took about 2 to 3 years to stop hating the place. I hated the weather, I hated the television (going from cable to like 4 channels was just evil), and I hated the people, because omfg, Perth has some truly racist pricks, and the complete utter lack of respect for any other culture but there’s pretty much meant I despised the place.

It is now home, and while it isn’t perfect I kind of love it.

[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 07:42 am (UTC)(link)
Kind of alive! I am working 40 hours a week, and also doing 4 classes at a community college here. (I don't get benefits at my job, and need to be a full-time student to stay on my mum's.) Kind of defeats the purpose of a year off to get rid of my school fatigue, but at least I don't have to cook for myself. :D I'm also in a serious downturn in the whole interpersonal contact sphere this year - you know when you just don't have anything to say (I will proceed to make that statement look silly), and can't even bring yourself to check friends lists & forums? I will eventually bring myself back up to a robust once-monthly posting rate, I'm sure. ;)

Everyone makes assumptions, it is just the way humans are, but at times assumptions without review can be a very negative thing.
That's true, yeah. It doesn't annoy me too much if people are open to being corrected; it's unwarranted certainty that really gets under the skin.

No kidding re: rudeness. It's like once their brain switches to the 'politics' setting, anything goes. (Brain damage sustained while participating in a debate team? Faulty extrapolation about social norms from data collected on the internet?) Luckily, none of my friends have ever said it to me--only their frineds. Also, I'm relieved you agree about school. I've had people laugh at me for that, but we go to classes! We read textbooks! We take tests and write essays!

Did you speak English when you got to Ireland? I've never really had much interest in the UK, although my family's only two generations removed, but it can't be too bad if even the school kids are nice. :D It's kind of hard for me to imagine people not being instantly enamoured of WA, but possibly that's because I'm not exactly the sort racist assholes target, unless it's with a 'Damn immigrants! You agree of course?' tirade. It definitely has its fair share of issues, and then some. I'm surprised Ireland didn't have some of the same problems, though--was it [even] more homogenous, not very many non-whites around?

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 09:12 am (UTC)(link)
40 hours a week, and also doing 4 classes at a community college here. That is a truly insane time table. But food! I love food. I got through periods where I don't have the energy or the desire to read forums and/or lj, and then wham I'm catching up on the all backlog over a 4 day period.

it's unwarranted certainty that really gets under the skin. Exactly. That denies any form of questioning or thoughts - the whole my way or the highway always makes very uncomfortable.

I try not to talk 'politics' with people that are not family, with family we can forgive, with other people, um, the cold war was probably warmer compared to some of the political, um, discussions I have had with people. But alas that was in my youth, I'm much more careful now. I sometime think people use uni because it differentiates them from others who are attending TAFE. Personally I think it is stupid, but hey, names and associated prestige is a highly important factor.

Nope. Not one word of English. I had to memorise 10 English words per day (spelling and meaning), and dad made me read the Bible during the school breaks. Told me to underline every word I didn't understand and find it on the dictionary. Dad's philosophy at the time was that I had to try to understand a culture in order to live in it. The Bible, well, the Bible was a bit of an eye opener. I went to an all girl private school - Our Lady of Victory (private schools are government owned in the UK), and nationality wise - well, I was one of the two none-Caucasian student in the school. The other girl was a black Irish girl. No one treated me any differently, every one tried to help with my English, and there was no singling out because I was Chinese or different. It was more out right curiosity and people honestly wanting to help. Had loads of friends, and overall it was just an awesome experience.

I have been called a chink, told to 'go back to my own country', expression of surprise at the fact that I can speak English, oh and basically been blamed for bad employment rate at one point. I admit the last one really threw me, the first hurt, and the latter 2 made me really furious.

Ireland was definitely homogenous – practically all whites, I don’t know whether it was because I was just lucky at where I lived or whether they are honestly that nice but my parents and I, while in Ireland never encountered any racist comments. But that may be going back to the discussion of gender invisibility, which can be argued as another form of racism. All I know is that when I first begun school in Ireland I didn’t speak one word of English, and instead of children making fun of me because of the way I looked or spoke they welcomed me, was honestly interested in my own culture, and took the time to explain their culture to me. WA, not so much.

[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 10:27 am (UTC)(link)
I enjoy talking politics, with the two ground rules that you only argue against what the other person said & you don't invalidate each other (like 'You'll see it my way when you're older'). In practice, that means that I enjoy talking politics with my brother or my dad, sometimes.

I sometime think people use uni because it differentiates them from others who are attending TAFE.
Oh, snob appeal. I see that. Also, I admit that part of the reason I say 'school' sometimes is to devalue university. There's so much cultural weight on this one form of personal/professional development, and it's not really much different from going to TAFE or reading an Idiot's Guide To book. And the intellectual standards aren't necessarily any more rigorous.

Memorising vocab - that's amazing, seriously. An Indian dude I knew about a decade ago said he had to learn English the same way, although I don't think he had to read the Bible. No way could I learn words that quickly. Did your parents speak English at home to reinforce it?

I've been stunned by some of the things that come out of Australians' mouths. They seem like great people all around, and then all of a sudden - anti-immigrant rants from white immigrants, or anti-Aboriginal rants, or total cluelessness about things you wouldn't think you could manage not to know. They could at least have the grace to be ashamed about it like the rest of us, right? "Go back to your own country" is so ridiculous.

It seems like it gets worse the more diversity there is. It could be partly a gender thing, and also that the people are generally at least more polite in Ireland (the fact that the kids took time to compare/share cultures with you is awesome), but I think it's also that if there's only a handful of non-white families, there's no threat to culture/jobs/kids/[insert important value or commodity supposedly negatively affected by immigration or racial diversity here]. And the parents probably haven't had a chance to imprint the proper anti-X attitudes onto their kids. WA has a bit more diversity, on top of the long-standing racism, which probably exacerbates the problem and feeds into the paranoia ("See? They ARE everywhere!").

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
It is interesting, but nowadays I only talk politics with my dad and sometime the boyfriend. Otherwise I’m talking about politics. Telling people what legislations has been passed, why the situation in Dafur is equal to genocide, etc., but I don’t bother debating politics with people anymore.

Exactly! The snob appeal. I tell people who are amazed by universities and degrees – I have a piece (well, 2 now) of paper that is too expensive to be toilet paper. Or as another friend said – a degree basically tells future employers that you can learn.

Memorising vocab - that's amazing, seriously. An Indian dude I knew about a decade ago said he had to learn English the same way, although I don't think he had to read the Bible. No way could I learn words that quickly. Did your parents speak English at home to reinforce it?

No. My family didn’t (doesn’t) speak English at home; my mother couldn’t speak English (still can’t, she refuses to learn) and they didn’t want me to lose all my cultural roots. It is a bit different when you are surrounded by another language so completely. I could speak to my parents in Chinese but everyone else, everything else in my life was in English – if I wanted to communicate I had to learn the language. Also, you’d be surprised how easy it can be when you are watching a huge amount of television and talking to people of the particular country. I use to come home from school, dad would sit with me and teach me 10 words, and I would learn its spelling, meaning and pronunciation, and then the next morning as dad is walking me to school he would quiz me on the words I learned. It is actually highly effective.

When you are learning a new language to speak it fluently there’s this melting point where your brain stop translating all the words from your native language to the one you are learning, and it starts to process the language as it is. That’s the crucial point, because you are in effect on your way to speaking like a native of that country. It is interesting because it also caused me to lose track of what I was saying. I still remember around the 4th to 5th of year of me learning English I started to lose track of what language I was speaking in, and even lost track of what language other people were saying. There were times that I stared at people for several seconds because I could not process what they were saying. Sound were been received I just couldn’t make it make sense to me. Those were freaky times.

Australia – well, Australia is a melting point of different cultures, but it is a white country. It doesn’t try to promote the other cultures within the country because it doesn’t want to. Though that may be more of a WA thing rather than an Eastern states thing. It always makes me amused as most of their ancestors are immigrants themselves, but because they look white they and because they take on so many Australian characteristics that they forget where they are from.

The anti-aboriginal sentiments is disgraceful, and the government continues to not help manners. I don’t even know what to say to this anymore.

there's no threat to culture/jobs/kids/ AGREED! I have nothing more to add to this because it is pretty much the main point. As for WA’s history of racism, oh

[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 11:08 am (UTC)(link)
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As for WA’s history of racism, oh boy, especially with the influx of the new immigrants it is only going to get worse before it gets better.