You can always check out WebHostingTalk.com for reviews on any webhost you decide to go with. Personally I'm not ready to jump ship, and I really don't foresee myself doing things that might be against the TOS.

What LJ really needs to do now is to explain the 2 cases of suspension, because from the comments I am reading it seems like people are still up in arms over the how and why exactly for this situation.

Also, a bit late to doing housekeeping and suddenly say, "this is the type of community we want", isn't it? They should have spelt this out from the start instead of springing it on us during 1) Memorial Day weekend, 2) Harry Potter DH weekend, and 3) Friday.