I don't know! Because she has heaps of emotional baggage with her family relationships, but I actually really like how she relates to her mum & dad. Likewise with Addison--I love how that's played out, ignoring Derek. I mean, yeah, it's not the sex per se that strips the relationships of anything that could be interesting, but there's something in specifically sexual feelings towards or from Meredith that turns everything bad. (I want to say romantic feelings also, but. Have you seen any episodes with Chris O'Donnell? I liked their flirtation.)

If only that much text could fit in an icon without obscuring Addison's face. (I need some Grey's icons, but. Um. Actually, I don't know why I don't have a whole heap!) I love how she's working with their relationship, but. She seems to be putting way too much effort into a mediocre man--which would bother me way less if he were putting some in too. I mean, I get disillusionment and falling for someone else, and his actions at first seemed to make sense? But once he agreed to try to make it work with Addison, he should, you know, try to make it work. And if he's going to be an asshole, he needs to stop playing that victim card.

By the way, you do get deleted comments, right? :D I wasn't sure if you got that one before.