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  • Aug. 29th, 2005 at 7:45 AM
naanima: (check-it-out)
Just when I think I understand all the cultural intricacies (or at least instinctively know them) of the western world I'm shot down by a small cultural phenomenon. I did not know that most Australian parents (is this true for the Americans too?) do not tell their children about how much they earn, or how much money they pay for bills. This is a complete incomprehensible act to me. And once again I realise what my first year psych lecturer said was true. Don't ever assume that you think you know everything.

Hmm. I’m hungry.

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[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com wrote:
Aug. 29th, 2005 01:40 am (UTC)
(I should say. I'm American, and my brother is, but my parents were both born and raised in Australia, so I don't really count so much on the American front. Most of my American friends have the same Don't Talk About It problem, but it seems to be less of a big deal for them. It doesn't really horrify them to be caught up in an "I'm poor!" commiseration-fest, :D, and they had more than a vague idea about family finances before reaching legal adulthood.)
[identity profile] naanima.livejournal.com wrote:
Aug. 29th, 2005 02:15 am (UTC)
Apparently Australian parents does it over here too. It just doesn't make any sense to me. I mean wouldn't it be a good idea to teach your children money sense earlier in life rather than having them screw up really badly first? Mum and dad's explanation was that they wanted me to know just how important money was. You can't just spent it recklessly, you need savings, and you have to budget for everything. Probably why even now I have problem spending money without thinking it through -_-;;
[identity profile] i-smile.livejournal.com wrote:
Aug. 29th, 2005 02:36 am (UTC)
We did somehow get it, though! We picked up the idea of savings & budgeting with more practical lessons, I guess--we got pocket money that we had to figure out how to spend on our own, and were never encouraged to ask for stuff or money from our parents aside from that. My brother & I tended to loan money to each other if we needed it, rather than asking Mum & Dad, and I used to charge interest. :D We both ended up being fairly cautious spenders, and I'm in charge of all of my living expenses this year and haven't had any trouble with it. And, hey, money's my hobby now. I'm doing an economics degree with no desire to go into business in any form.
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[identity profile] amei.livejournal.com wrote:
Aug. 29th, 2005 02:20 pm (UTC)
I dunno. I'd like to think that I know how important money is, and my parents didn't really tell me at a young age how much they make.

Not everyone spends money recklessly just because they weren't told daddy makes X amount of dollars when they were three.

For me I have trouble spending money because it hurts to spend x hours of earnings from uh work, on something I don't really need.

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